Angel of mercy takes own life

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A WOMAN who tried to kill her husband in an act of mercy more than a decade ago has taken her own life at a Swiss euthanasia clinic.

In 1999, toymaker and artist Vicki Wood walked free from court after admitting the attempted murder of Tim Wood, who was diagnosed with chronic dementia and later Parkinson's disease. He died nine months later.

After travelling to Zurich-based Dignitas with a friend, Mrs Wood, 67, took her life on Friday after suffering from a debilitating physical illness that meant she could no longer work, which was described as her "lifeblood". The condition was not thought to be have been related to dementia.

Mrs Wood's hearing in Exeter, which saw her banned from ever being alone with her husband again, was seen as a watershed in the debate on assisted dying in Britain.

The couple, who were married for around 20 years and well-known in South Devon, were both members of a society that advocated euthanasia.

In common with her husband, Mrs Wood had made a "living will", indicating she did not want to receive life-prolonging treatment in the event of serious illness.

In an obituary agreed by Mrs Wood and sent to the Western Morning News, friend and journalist Andy Christian wrote "despite the setbacks, Vicki Wood led a bountiful life".

It went on: "She was a seeker of new experiences, a pioneer gallery owner, an enthusiastic collector, a loving wife and an enviable godmother."

Mr Christian added: "I remember Tim and Vicki as a happy couple. They were always full of fun and we shared serious conversations and lots of laughter."

The Woods lived in a converted chapel in the village of Harbertonford, near Totnes.

They became members of the Voluntary Euthanasia Society – which has been campaigning since 1935 to legalise assisted suicide – shortly after Mr Wood was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 1995.

Such was their advocacy, they both took part in debates about assisted suicide in the media.

The couple appeared in a 1995 BBC documentary about euthanasia in which Mr Wood said: "The difficult thing, I think, is for a willing helper like Vicki. It is going to be far harder for her."

Eleven years ago, Mrs Wood was sentenced to two years' probation at Exeter Crown Court after a merciful judge spared her the typical sentence handed down for attempted murder.

The court heard how, as they lay in bed together, listening to Beethoven and eating doughnuts, Mrs Wood put a pillow over her husband's head.

But the attempted mercy killing failed when Mr Wood complained he could not breathe, struggled and fell out of bed.

After the trial, Mrs Wood told the WMN: "Tim asked 'why are you crying?' I said 'because I tried to kill you' and then he said 'that's all right – stop crying'."

She remained unrepentant about trying to kill her husband since it would have freed him of the "living hell" of dementia.

She told the WMN in 2002: "I feel like I let Tim down. He went on for nine more months after that."

The couple met when Mrs Wood moved from London to Dartmouth, where Mr Wood was a teacher at Britannia Royal Naval College. The couple, both members of the Devon Guild of Craftsmen, made acclaimed wooden toys and sophisticated clockwork machines.

Their work included a motorised Spanish Armada for Buckland Abbey, near Yelverton, Devon, the stately home once owned by Sir Francis Drake.

Moving back to South Devon after a brief time living in Yorkshire, Mrs Wood opened the prominent and "magical" Number 7 workshop and gallery on Totnes high street.

Mr Christian added: "Vicki has touched and enriched the lives of so many of her friends and fellow makers. She leaves a gap which will only be partially filled by the works she has left behind.

"For those of us who are lucky enough to remember her bright, questioning eyes and warm, intelligent smile she has passed on something of immeasurable good."

Mrs Wood is the latest of more than 100 Britons to travel to Digintas to take their own lives, hoping their partner will escape prosecution.

Years after her court case, assisted dying remains contentious. Calls for it to be legalised have been countered by claims the law would fall victim to abuse.

The Director of Public Prosecutions recently issued new guidelines outlining the factors he regarded as relevant in deciding whether or not to prosecute assisted suicides.

In January, a judge criticised the Crown Prosecution Service for pursuing an attempted murder case against Kay Gilderdale, who was characterised as a loving mother, who helped her seriously ill daughter to die.

Last month, Somerset-based author Terry Pratchett, who has Alzheimer's, called for the advent of a euthanasia tribunal in his Richard Dimbleby lecture.

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    by anonymous, UK

    Friday, March 12 2010, 9:57AM

    “We rarely hear from those who feel they too may one day need this assistance if they are ever to have a dignified end to their lives.

    I have now had Primary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis for over half of my life. Even though at first it was not particularly disabling and could be managed; its progression has been insidious and unrelenting. . An any more graphic description would not be appropriate at this time.

    I do wish to be able to ask for assistance to die if a time comes when the alternative becomes intolerable; as what I now fear most is my possible inability to act on my own, and the loneliness of that moment even if I am.

    We are now being told that it will be compassion that will be the main mitigation, if people assist their relatives to go abroad to places like Switzerland to die, but there are two points. . Firstly I do not even have a passport, and I wish to die in my own country anyway, and in my own home if at all possible. . And secondly the thought of my wife or any of my loved ones having to go through the trauma of a court case and legal battle, if they assisted me is totally unacceptable to me. . It only adds to the unrelenting stress this disability already affords me.

    There are many, many thousands of us out here, so can I ask your readers to write to their MPs and do all in their power to get the law changed, as Mr Terry Pratchett envisages. . Please be assured he speaks for the vast majority of us.”

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    by anonymous, Westcountry

    Thursday, March 11 2010, 9:19PM

    “My previous post seems to have gone before the Mod. Which is what I expected, and agree it should be before the Mod. But I would like it to be posted in due course. : -)”

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    by anonymous, Westcountry

    Thursday, March 11 2010, 9:14PM

    “As someone over pensionable age, what worries me more than anything else is dementia.

    I gather most people of my age are also much more worried about dementia than, say, cancer.

    Dementia is a disease that effects others in some way more than the patient and many do not want to impose a burden, pointlessly, on family, charities and the state.

    In this case, Mrs Wood had some other incurable disease.

    I do think we must come to terms with the "success" of modern medicine that can allow us to live beyond our three score and ten, and for society to consider how and when we can end our own lives, or get others to help us end our lives, if we set up things - criteria, etc. - before we become too ill.

    I have had a good life; and it will be a better life if I can choose when I depart.”

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